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But what bad luck I have! If you’ve said this phrase on more than one occasion, (or too many lately) maybe it’s not the four-leaf clovers or horseshoes that can change your situation, but your habits and how you handle yourself in life.
If after trying your best to achieve something you want, you fail, if you seem to be always walking around with a black cloud over your head or if you can’t move forward in the game of life. Is it bad luck?
Within psychology, luck and people are viewed in a somewhat different way. So, rather than bad luck or karma, we talk about a dimension of the personality: the “locus of control” What does this dimension allude to? Basically it has to do with the way we see life.
There are two sub-dimensions within the locus of control. The internal “locus of control” allows us to realize that there are outcomes for which we have a great deal of responsibility, whether in success or failure. It has a lot to do with how we work, how hard we work, how disciplined we are, how confident we are in our abilities and how we have good self-esteem.
On the other hand, there is the external “locus of control”. This has to do with the degree of influence we attribute to events or elements that we cannot control over the results we obtain. This is where luck comes into play as a star element that we cannot control. It is a kind of trunk in which we can fit anything we want, or rather, anything we want to fit.
However we have our two dimensions of “locus of control”, we must recognize that there is no result -with a certain significance- that depends exclusively on us or, on the contrary, on external causes. Thus, no matter how sick the baker may have been today, if we have no bread on the table today, it is because we have not found sufficient motivation to go to another bakery. On the other hand, we cannot deny that if the baker had been healthy today we would have bread on the table.
It could be said then that “bad luck” is an “attributive habit”, partly true but also partly comfortable. It serves to evade responsibility or to cover up the fact of not having invested enough effort or not having developed enough skill.
We must remember that “bad luck attracts more bad luck”. As we have said before, it is a justification that can make us feel comfortable in the face of life and at the same time, at the same time, load us with frustration. Thus, we can unintentionally develop an enormous helplessness in the face of what happens to us. If what happens does not depend on me, why do anything? It will happen when it has to happen.
Thus, it is often said that bad luck tends to live in those people who think that the solution to all problems is brought by the passage of time itself.
Although I have been talking all the time about bad luck, what I have said applies equally to good luck. Curiously, people who do not believe too much in luck, good or bad, attract good luck. Why? Because they move, because they look for solutions, because in a lottery they are the ones who bet the most and buy the most shares.
Curiously, other people who attract good fortune are optimists. Why? Because of the self-fulfilling prophecy.
What’s that? Let’s imagine that we have to have a dialogue with a person who we think is somewhat “rude”. In the conversation, we will probably use coarser manners and make the other person use them as well. Thus, our idea will be reinforced over and over again: rude you, rude him. By this I mean that many times, being positive or negative we make things happen in one way or another and evolve in one way or another.
Although you may not have noticed, I have already introduced you to two of the three best friends of good fortune:
-Think that luck does not exist before tackling a task.
-Approach this task or situation with optimism.
And the third? Selective memory. Since you see the world through glasses, why not choose the ones that help you the most? Yes, I said the ones that help you the most and not the ones that reflect reality the best. By glasses I mean your selective memory: the one that makes you remember everything sad when you are sad and everything happy when you are happy. Well, moods do not have to choose what is underlined in your memories. You can also choose where in your memory you place your attention.
So, if you remember all those times when you have made an effort and achieved a result, it will be easier for you to develop a lucky solution: either because the solutions are similar or because you understand that the solution is in you and you dedicate more effort to reach it.
If you ally yourself with these three friends, I assure you that you will gain in fortune. A fortune that does not refer to the lottery but to the little things of everyday life. Yes, those that build true happiness.
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